STYLE YOUR LIFE

A Few Things I've Been Thinking About 

Why You Shouldn't Let AI Tell You What to Wear fashion your style Jan 28, 2026

We are living in a moment where artificial intelligence can create recipes, write essays, design graphics, and yes — even tell you what colours you "should" wear or what body type you "are."

And while I adore partnering with AI for writing, brainstorming, and bringing creative ideas to life (you an...

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Be A Rock Star love your life Jan 17, 2026

Some guy said to me: “Don’t you think you’re too old to sing rock n’ roll?” I said: “You’d better ask Mick Jagger.

—Cher

Beatles or Stones?

Back in elementary school, I collected Beatles trading cards. The kind that came in five-cent bubble gum packages. I wasn’t interested in all the Beatles, ju...

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The Only List I Care About design your life Jan 03, 2026

Today marks something tender and remarkable: the second edition of Wear Your Life Well is officially out in the world. Nine years to the day since the first edition arrived. Nine years of growth, grit, grace - and becoming.

I know there's a lot of noise in the publishing world about lists and ranki...

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Becoming: A Word, A Season, A Promise to Myself love your life Jan 01, 2026

For last year's words belong to last year's language. And next year's words await another voice.

~T.S. Eliot

 

Each December, I choose a word to guide the year ahead. Not a resolution, not a task list, not another impossible standard—just a word that steadies me, stretches me, and reminds me of w...

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What Not to Wear design your life Dec 29, 2025

 

Clothes aren’t going to change the world. The women who wear them will. 

—Anne Klein 

 

Not everything we wear shows up in the mirror. Some of the heaviest things we carry never even hang in our closet. Over the years I’ve learned that style isn’t just about what you put on, it’s also about ...

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Silver, Memory, and Choosing to Live Well love your life Dec 24, 2025

 

Tonight, I cleaned my silverware.

It has been sitting quietly in a drawer for years—not because it didn’t matter, but perhaps because it mattered too much. As I polished each piece, I realized I wasn’t really cleaning silver at all. I was touching memory. Love. History.

My great aunt Mitzi live...

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