Giving from the Heart: Supporting What Speaks to You

Everywhere you turn these days, there’s a cause asking for help.
And truthfully, most of them are worthy.

It’s easy to feel torn—pulled between compassion and fatigue. The need is endless, the world feels heavy, and even with the best of intentions, we can’t do it all.

That’s why giving, for me, has become less about how much and more about why.

Finding Meaning in Where We Give

Over time, I’ve realized that giving isn’t about guilt or obligation. It’s about alignment. It’s about supporting something that reflects our values and the life lessons that shaped us.

When we choose where to give based on what stirs our hearts, our generosity becomes more than a donation—it becomes a declaration of what matters most to us.

For me, that’s Because I Am a Girl. Their mission to empower girls through education and opportunity touches something deep inside me. It reminds me of how different life could be depending on the circumstances of our birth—and how small acts of support can change a girl’s entire future.

Supporting them feels like honoring the strength of women everywhere—the ones who came before us, and the ones still fighting to be seen, safe, and free to become who they are meant to be.

The Ripple Effect of Heartfelt Giving

We may not be able to help everyone, but we can help someone.
And that someone matters.

When we give from a place of connection—not comparison, not guilt—we create ripples. A little more hope. A little more kindness. A reminder that goodness still exists.

It doesn’t have to be grand. Sometimes the most powerful gestures are quiet—volunteering your time, mentoring a young woman, sharing your story, or simply showing up for someone who needs to be reminded they’re not alone.

Because generosity isn’t limited to a dollar figure. It’s a mindset.
It’s how we choose to live—open-hearted, aware, and willing to make a difference where we can.

 Giving as a Reflection of Who We Are

Every act of giving, big or small, tells a story about who we are and what we value.
It says: This is what I believe in. This is the kind of world I want to help create.

So the next time you’re asked to give, pause for a moment.
Ask yourself:
What touches my heart?
What aligns with my story?
What impact feels true to me?

Because when your giving flows from that place—from authenticity, not obligation—it fills you up rather than drains you. It becomes an act of joy, not just charity.

Copyright: Helene Oseen 2025